...DONT U JUST HATE

Incessant rants...Fani??...tut tut tut...Anewais i might sound like a bitter old woman whose husband just left her for a young, sexy supermodel, lets just say i'm not, well..for starters, a bitter old woman and yes not married either..so y the rants??...I'm just in the mood to vent  my frustration on the things that irk my beautiful soul...yup yup yup...please feel free to indulge yourself....Good therapy, trust me!!!

1.Dont you just hate it when u stumble on all them relationship blogs or someone writes a random article on relationship do's and don't...well, if you are like me, i tend not to follow whatever it is, I like to believe everything written is from someone's point of view....so what works for that person wouldn't necessarily work for me..Let me divert a little, the other day i randomly had this convo with a friend of mine..... dat said, what is it with annoying friends who think they can control ur life or better still advice u on what/ how a good relationship should be like?..I really cant remember how the relationship talk started ..hmmm, i think he asked me if i was seeing somebody or so..arrrggghh, cant remember but yeah..he is supposedly in a fantastic relationship(so he claims/says)...I told him i wasn't seeing anybody, taking my time bla bla and next thing dude starts to tell me about the history of his relationship, how he met his girl, what attracted him to her, how he asked her out bla bla bla....like wth??..who does that???..He further expantiated on his relationship do's and dont's and came up with some relationship guideline which according to him i should follow If and when i decide to be in a relationship. I still cant get over that conversation.What is it with friends that want to live your life for u??

2.Don't you just hate it when people pretend to be something they are not, I get the whole u should emulate some people shiznit particularly if it's something positive u see in a friend, yes u can emulate that person but not live your entire life as that person. I have this friend who doesnt have a life, well..she does actually but let's just say it's not her own life .she lives a phoney lifestyle, painting a picture of something that doesnt exist , maybe in another life...You know how someone tries so hard to be noticed, like why do people do that..why do you go out of your way to represent something you are not.Sometimes i wanna sit her down and tell her the way it is but she'll probably think i'm jealous and you know how catty girls can be when you try to beat some sense into them...oh well!!!

3.Don't you just hate it when guys get a tadbit over familiar..as in what arrant nonsense? some guys just don't know when to stop.I mean you meet a guy bla bla, u guys start to chat and all and all of a sudden it's comfortable for him to talk about how much he wants to shag u..call me old fashioned but err...what happened to the 'getting to know you better' phase...sometimes i scroll through the convo's i have with some people on bbm and i'm thoroughly disgusted.like what is up with guys and their bullshit...I wont give out too much on this matter but i just find it totally repugnant and unacceptable the manner at which some guys talk to girls.


So please feel free to disagree/agree or better still air out the things u hate...

xoxo..

Tut tut tut.....

*sigh*.....I randomly sat on my bed analysing my wardrobe and whining as usual about how i never find anything to wear..'I am not a shopaholic, let's just say that i love to collect things'...Anewais before i digress, why is it that we buy and buy and buy but when we have some important function to attend we come up with 'ohhh lawd, i have nothing to wear'.....like why do we do that and i know majority of us fall into this category..so i randomly picked up my glamour magazine and stumbled on some article on ' d confessions of a shopaholic' which i wont plunge into cos a lot of us already have an idea of the life of a shopaholic..always wanting even with little or no cash..thankfully, i'm not one on those that pile up debts just cos of shopping but the thing i found most interesting was the manner at which you can curb ur spending/shopping sprees.....

-Remove temptation...Those weekly newsletters that pop into ur inbox or advertisement on tv screaming SALE SALE SALE '..let's just say they draw unnecessary enticement .

-Take breathing space- Internet shopping is the easiest way to overspend .once u've taken items to the 'checkout', do not complete the transaction.instead close the window and distract yourself .often the rush of browsing is enough to satisfy your urge to buy.

-Stop saying "I have nothing to wear"..Pull everything out of your wardrobe.you'll be surprised what you find lurking there.try on various outfits and pair with different accessories.u'll find new outfits from what you already...and get the rush of shopping without a bill.

Like you, I'm not perfect and i intend to follow this guidelines, so help me God!!!!...I hope u found this little info useful..


Gros bisous....

Heart of the Matter....

I dont know what to say about this song but i hope u can relate to it as much as i do....'To forgive is to set someone free and discover that the prisoner was you'-Lewis B.smedes

Lyrics.....

I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And all the struggles we went through
How I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?


I've been learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore


These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
And people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age
And the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work they put between us,
You know it doesn't keep us warm


I've been trying to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
The more I know, the less I understand
And all the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my heart is so shattered
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore


All the people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; cause life goes on
You keep carrin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside


I wanna be happily everafter
And my heart is so shattered
But I know it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore


I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if you don't love me anymore
Even if you don't love me anymore

xoxo....

me + u= ?

Life is so funny, was on the bus last night and i randomly thought about the one who got away...(Note..he was never mine to start with)...I haven't thought about him in two years, we didn't even date or something but we shared something...in as much as i don't hate him but deep down i want to, Truth is i miss him too bits, i miss him so much i literally hurt deep inside me..i know he is with another , i'm not mad anymore infact i wish him all the best. I'm not going to dwell on 'if he was mine he would come back looking for me'..err...he aint clearly, i've waited this long not like i was expecting him to pop up at some point but if he was mine he would have called or something, he would have asked after me..I probably would have bumped into him somewhere, just somewhere but i didn't .so yeah!!!!

Then y do i miss him so much???....well for starters, he is a good listener..I miss those days when we'd stay up late and i'd just open up and pour out my heart, i miss those days when he would do the tiniest thing and i'd turn hot pink(in my mind's eye)..Just because!!!!....i miss those days when he would hold me tight, plant wet kisses on my face and we'd just lay wrapped up in each other's arms deep in our own variant thoughts..I miss him cos he was good to me , Everything i could ever ask for...Everything i wanted in a man....

But WE' never happened.......

I'm not sad anymore about us but sometimes some buried thoughts just pop up...u cant stop urself and no one is saying u should wallow in self pity or better still tie urself up, cry ur heart out bla bla....

We  never happened but i still appreciate the good times we had...

Thank u for listening , u could have feigned a deep sigh or put on a forced smile BUT u listened..so thank u thank u thank u....

xoxo
Me..

Random...

I hate that i wanna say something and then i delete it....y???

I want....

it'll be really nice if someone randomly sends me this Gorgeous  'anglomania lady dragon black skull bow'...prettyyyy pls!!!!

Burberry Prorsum

Okayyyy...remember how i said i was gonna do a post on burberry menscoat....*sigh*..forgive me pls...anewais for ur viewing pleasure..My fave fave at d moment...

...Gros Bisous..